💬 Top Questions Couples Ask Their Officiant

Couples often have similar questions when it comes to planning their ceremony—and that’s completely normal.

One of the biggest questions is:

How long will the ceremony be?

Typically, ceremonies range from 10-16  minutes, depending on what you include.

Another common question is about vows—should they be personal or traditional?

The answer is simple: whatever feels right for you. Some couples love writing their own, while others prefer a repeat-after-me format. You can even do both.

Couples also ask about the legal side—how the marriage license works, when to get it, and what needs to be done after the ceremony. This is something I guide you through so you don’t have to stress.

Rehearsals are another topic—are they necessary?

While not required, they can be helpful, especially if you have a larger wedding party or want everyone to feel confident in their roles.

And one of my favorite questions:

Can we make our ceremony unique?

Absolutely. In fact, I encourage it.

Your ceremony should reflect your story, your personalities, and your vision—not anyone else’s.

Contact Laura Becker 

609-774-0341

Ibeckerweddingofficiant@gmail.com