When couples begin planning their wedding, they often focus on the venue, the dress, the photographer, and the music. Somewhere along the way, they realize— wait… we need someone to actually marry us. That’s where an officiant comes in—but the role is so much more than just standing up and saying, “You may kiss now.” As your officiant, I help guide you through one of the most meaningful parts of your wedding day: your ceremony. I take the time to get to know you as a couple—y

Couples often have similar questions when it comes to planning their ceremony—and that’s completely normal. One of the biggest questions is: How long will the ceremony be? Typically, ceremonies range from 10-16  minutes, depending on what you include. Another common question is about vows—should they be personal or traditional? The answer is simple: whatever feels right for you. Some couples love writing their own, while others prefer a repeat-after-me format. You can even do

One of the most common things couples don’t realize is how quickly officiants book up—especially during peak wedding months like May, June, September, and October. Many couples secure their venue, photographer, and DJ early on… and wait on the officiant. But your officiant plays such an important role in your day, and finding the right fit matters. Ideally, you should book your officiant as soon as you have your date and venue secured. This gives you time to connect, plan you

In the middle of planning a wedding, it’s easy to focus on the reception—the party, the music, the celebration. But the ceremony? That’s the reason for everything. Your ceremony is the moment you make your promises. It’s where your story is told, your love is shared, and your marriage begins. It sets the tone for the entire day. A meaningful ceremony creates a moment your guests will remember—not just because it was beautiful, but because it felt real and personal. It’s the p

Your ceremony doesn’t have to be traditional—it can be as unique as your love story. There are so many ways to make your ceremony feel personal and memorable. Unity ceremonies are a beautiful way to symbolize your coming together. This could be a sand ceremony, a handfasting, or even including your children in a special moment that represents blending families. Handfasting  - Handfasting is an ancient Celtic tradition, often called "tying the knot," where  a couple's hands ar

Writing your own wedding vows can feel overwhelming—but it doesn’t have to be. The truth is, your vows don’t need to be perfect. They just need to be real . Start by thinking about your relationship. How did you meet? What makes your partner special to you? What are the little things you love about them? From there, think about what you want to promise. Vows are not just about how you feel—they’re about the commitment you’re making. A simple structure can help: Start with wh

A simple, stress-free checklist for newly married couples Changing your name after marriage is completely optional and very personal. This guide is provided as a courtesy to help make the process easier and less overwhelming. Start Here ☐ Social Security Administration Government & Identification ☐ Driver’s License & Vehicle Registration ☐ U.S. Passport ☐ Voter Registration ☐ U.S. Post Office Financial Accounts ☐ Bank Accounts ☐ Credit & Debit Cards ☐ Retirement Plans & Inves

Delaware If you live in DE, you can get the license in any of the 3 counties-New Castle, Kent or Sussex If you do not live in DE, I suggest you get the license in the county that the venue sits in. Get license 1-2 weeks prior to wedding License will go back to the county you got the license from Kent takes walk ins, New Castle and Sussex appointments need to be made Sussex requires you make an appointment 2 months in advance) I am registered in all 3 counties use the above na

What Matters the Most for Your Ceremony. Connection & Comfort - You should feel truly at ease with your officiant-someone who listens, understands your story, and makes you feel supported from the very first conversation. Personalization - Your ceremony should feel like YOU. A great officiant weaves your personality, love story, and vision into a meaningful, unforgettable experience. Professionalism & Experience - From crafting the script to guiding the rehearsal and handlin